Sunday, May 31, 2009

Conflict

Recently, I’m conflicting among myself. Not sure whether I should change someone mind, for his good and become his enemy at last. Or let him go for the mistake, and learn from there. The situations here, seems like the second choice is a smarter way. But, it’s really hard for me to bear that mistake, because the mistake will affect me in another way. Which one should I choose between friendship and my principle?


What will people do when they found a problem? Run away from it? Face it? Solve it? From successful people, of course we know we should face and solve the problem rather running away from it. But, how many of us are brave enough to face the reality? Problem will still exists, if do not solve it now. Maybe it will become greater when we facing it tomorrow.


The day my father get stroke, I went to hospital in school uniform. A doctor come and talk to me, he introduced himself as the ex-student of my school. I told him that my father get stroke and ask him whether got anyway to cure my dad. He told me to be calm, my father need my support. He tell me a truth, he said nothing can cure stroke, only prevention can be made. People never feel harm when they know that they have high blood pressure. But, why people taking medicine to lower down their blood pressure? Because they already know the result of high blood pressure is to get stroke. For those who don’t want to face reality will end up here getting stroke. They see the situation now have no harm to him, so he don’t take the medicine advised by doctor, they never realize that the mindset killing them softly until they found out they get stroke in bed.


Since then, I know I have to face the reality is an important attitude. The difference in thought will give us to different result. Actually, we already decided the result when we have the thought in our mindset.

Sometimes, I feel I’m the trouble maker for this world. Other people never happy when I told them that I see that is a potential problem there. The world will become peace, if people like me doesn’t exists? May be yes, may be no.


Who cares about what they will be facing in future? Most of the people just see what they see is true in front of them. Why need to do so much to forsee your future? You will know it when you see the result.

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