Conflict

Recently, I’m conflicting among myself. Not sure whether I should change someone mind, for his good and become his enemy at last. Or let him go for the mistake, and learn from there. The situations here, seems like the second choice is a smarter way. But, it’s really hard for me to bear that mistake, because the mistake will affect me in another way. Which one should I choose between friendship and my principle?

What will people do when they found a problem? Run away from it? Face it? Solve it? From successful people, of course we know we should face and solve the problem rather running away from it. But, how many of us are brave enough to face the reality? Problem will still exists, if do not solve it now. Maybe it will become greater when we facing it tomorrow.

The day my father get stroke, I went to hospital in school uniform. A doctor come and talk to me, he introduced himself as the ex-student of my school. I told him that my father get stroke and ask him whether got anyway to cure my dad. He told me to be calm, my father need my support. He tell me a truth, he said nothing can cure stroke, only prevention can be made. People never feel harm when they know that they have high blood pressure. But, why people taking medicine to lower down their blood pressure? Because they already know the result of high blood pressure is to get stroke. For those who don’t want to face reality will end up here getting stroke. They see the situation now have no harm to him, so he don’t take the medicine advised by doctor, they never realize that the mindset killing them softly until they found out they get stroke in bed.

Since then, I know I have to face the reality is an important attitude. The difference in thought will give us to different result. Actually, we already decided the result when we have the thought in our mindset.

Sometimes, I feel I’m the trouble maker for this world. Other people never happy when I told them that I see that is a potential problem there. The world will become peace, if people like me doesn’t exists? May be yes, may be no.

Who cares about what they will be facing in future? Most of the people just see what they see is true in front of them. Why need to do so much to forsee your future? You will know it when you see the result.

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There is an elephant outside the refrigerator

This is not my story.. Just a touching story to share..

There is a little girl who has a lovely father. But, she never appreciated it. She feels shame when her friends making jokes on her 200 pounds father. She is always sensitive with the word Pig!

Every day, her father sent her to school. This girl never know that is the most happy thing for a child. One day, she cannot stand for the shame anymore.. She told her father no need to send her to school anymore and tell her father the shame she felt every day.

His father ask him what is the steps to put an elephant into the refrigerator. The answer is to open the refrigerator door, put the elephant into it and close the door. He told the girl with smiles, although the elephant is big size, but the refrigerator still willing to fit it into it… The girl smiled and says, “Then you are the elephant in refrigerator…”

Their family is really poor, they just rent a small unit of apartment to stay. One day, the girl ask her father.. Why we dun have home? Her father ask her a question, how to place a giraffe into refrigerator? She say, open the door, chop the giraffe head, put the giraffe into refrigerator and close the door. Her father says, “Don’t make things difficult, you just need to open the door, bring the elephant out, place the giraffe in the refrigerator, then close the door.” He continued, “Girl, you see giraffe also have it house now, the refrigerator is it home… What you need is a home, not a house…”

One day, her mother told her that, “Girl, one day the jungle is on fire. Which animal still alive? Is giraffe! Because you put it into refrigerator…” That girl don’t get what her mother mean and replied, “So?” Her mother cried and said, “The elephant also died in the fire! Your father is dead. He will never come back to us again.” That girl cried out, “Why this happen to me? Why I choose to let elephant stay outside the refrigerator? Why I cannot accept my father big size? ”

The death of father change that girl’s life, happiness and luck no longer belong to her… For others, happy may because you have the one you love as your lover, or you have one love you as your lover, or you have your success in career… For her, happy is just two things, one is to have someone love you and someone you love at the same time, another one is to have a warm home…

What if the giraffe never exist, will the story end happily? No, the elephant will also die because of freezing in the refrigerator…

Sometimes, people may lost their mind, lost in their life and forgot the way to go home… A sub story worth for us to think of it… Recently, she read a lost and found notice in newspaper. There is a bee looking for 5 ants. Maybe the ants are lost or forget their home. So, she called up that bee and told him that she willing to help him to find out the 5 ants. But, the bee told her no need to find the ants for him anymore, because he already gave up. The bee told her that happy is no voice itself. So, you never realize it existence whenever it surround you, and you never appreciated it until the happiness lost in air and never come back to you again…

19th May 2009

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Poem

During my secondary time, a few of my friends can make good poem. We use poem to criticize people and more important is to express our feeling. Recently, I make a poem by merging two sentences from a song. Then, I placed the poem in my msn personal message.

Then, a few guys message me and ask me about that. I told them that I make this poem for fun, but they say the poem also mean my feeling in another way. I admit it.

人走了就让心死了，你走了就让门关着了.. Direct translation of this poem: If someone leaved, let the heart die. If you leaved, let the door close. What a pessimistic poem. As a result, I get scolded for being thinking pessimistic. I agree that I’m pessimistic in most of the time. Sorry friends, I need time to have my new life. Forget the past… and forgive myself for my guiltiness.

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